Fireworks and Things
You know how it goes.
You’re talking with someone. The
subject doesn't matter, but the Other Person says, “Say, you know that thing we
were talking about earlier? Have you
thought about it any further?”
Happens to me all the time.
I look at OP, blank expression.
OP says, “I have.
What if we used Velcro?”
More blank expression from me.
OP continues, “It would work. The thing wouldn't be too heavy, and we could
sew one side of the Velcro to the fabric and use stick-on Velcro on the...
thing.” Big smile.
Me: “What are we talking about?”
OP: “You know, Velcro?”
Me: “No. What is the “thing” you want to use Velcro on?”
OP, exasperated expression: “We were just talking about this
earlier. You know, the thing we used in
OP is clearly noun-challenged. Well, that’s not fair—actually OP has a
wonderful vocabulary. OP knows exactly
what object OP’s thinking and speaking about.
OP can visualize it in three dimensions and in color. OP just begins speaking before remembering
its name. Discussions similar to this
one but on varying topics occur just about daily.
I have a fairly short fuse with the word “thing.” OP knows this. I have asked numerous times for OP to use any
other word, and I mean any (I've suggested “item,” “device,” “object,”
etc.), but somehow it’s always “thing.” My
fuse is now lit.
I ask, “When were we talking about this?”
OP: “You know, the other day.”
Me, fuse almost burned down: “Give me a hint what we're
The fireworks begin. Oh, nothing dramatic. No explosions, or skyrockets, or even pinwheels.
No, it’s just a sparkler I’m holding that my short fuse has ignited. It’s pretty, with colored sparks that fly out about six inches before dying.
OP, eyes narrowed: “Don't make fun of me.”
I plead, “Just tell me what you're asking me about.”
Silence. I try again (20-questions style), “Is it bigger than a breadbox? What color is it? What’s it made of? Help me out here.” With a smile, I wiggle the sparkler about.
I notice that OP’s fuse is now exposed, out in the open, and the sparks from my sparkler are getting very close to igniting it. I know from experience that OP’s fuse IS
connected to some serious pyrotechnics, and they are NOT pretty. So I stamp out my sparkler.
“I’m sorry. Really. I was just thinking about other stuff, and our earlier conversation got jumbled up with that. Tell me again your idea about the Velcro?”
OP: “I know. I get it. You're just giving me a hard time about saying ‘thing.’” (Searching...) “Oh, you know, the... white... plastic... uh—”
Me, with enthusiasm: “The fence posts! To use as spacers, right? You think Velcro might work?”
OP, fuse snuffed out and cold: “Well, yes. I know they're kind of heavy, but we could
always double up on the Velcro. I think it would work!”
Another fireworks show avoided.
But more work needed on “things.”